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How to Ensure Your Living Will Accurately Reflects Your Healthcare Wishes

Sanders & Sanders, Attorneys at Law Aug. 26, 2025

A well-crafted living will minimizes confusion among loved ones and healthcare providers, helping prevent conflict and unnecessary suffering. When properly written and maintained, it can also help avoid unnecessary complications.

At Sanders & Sanders, Attorneys at Law, we understand that clearly documenting your healthcare preferences assures your voice is heard, even if you're unable to speak for yourself. 

We help clients in Prince George's County, Southern Maryland, and the D.C. Metro area with their wills to make sure they reflect their healthcare wishes. Contact our firm today to schedule a consultation with us.

What Is the Purpose of a Living Will?

A living will is a legal document that outlines your preferences for medical treatment in the event you become incapacitated and unable to communicate. It typically addresses issues such as life support, artificial nutrition, pain management, and organ donation.

This isn’t to be confused with a last will and testament, which deals with property distribution and probate. A living will is strictly for healthcare decisions and is a key component of a broader estate plan.

By defining your wishes ahead of time, you reduce the likelihood of disputes during emotionally charged moments. You also ease the burden on family members, who might otherwise struggle with making these decisions on your behalf.

Choosing the Right Healthcare Proxy

Alongside your living will, you should designate a healthcare proxy—someone authorized to make medical decisions if you're incapacitated. This person should be familiar with your values and be willing to honor your wishes.

Your proxy shouldn't only be trustworthy but also emotionally capable of making potentially difficult decisions. It's important to communicate openly with your proxy and give them a copy of your living will.

Make sure your healthcare provider and family are aware of your chosen proxy. Without this clarity, decisions may default to next of kin, who might not fully understand your desires.

Reflecting on Personal Values and Beliefs

Your living will should be a true reflection of your values. Are you someone who prioritizes quality of life over longevity? Would you prefer all possible measures to be taken, or do you want to avoid excessive medical intervention?

Taking time to reflect on your values will help shape your preferences for scenarios such as:

  • Artificial life support

  • Resuscitation (CPR or defibrillation)

  • Mechanical ventilation

  • Tube feeding or hydration

  • Palliative or hospice care

Conversations with spiritual advisors, doctors, and loved ones can help clarify your views and assure that your will truly reflects your convictions.

Consulting With an Estate Planning Attorney

To assure your living will complies with local laws and addresses probate concerns, you should work with an experienced estate planning attorney. At Sanders & Sanders, Attorneys at Law, we make sure that your documents meet all legal requirements in Maryland and the D.C. area.

Many people rely on free templates, which often fail to cover complicated scenarios or meet state-specific standards. Incomplete or vague documents may create confusion later, potentially leading to probate disputes.

Your attorney can also help you integrate your living will with other estate planning tools, such as your will, trust, and advance directive. This holistic approach provides the most comprehensive protection.

Updating Your Living Will Over Time

Life circumstances and medical opinions change. A living will should be reviewed regularly, especially after major life events like a marriage, divorce, diagnosis, or the birth of a child.

Failing to update your living will could result in outdated instructions that no longer reflect your wishes. Worse, it might direct care based on relationships or health conditions that have significantly changed.

Keeping your document current also helps avoid probate challenges that could arise due to inconsistencies between older and newer versions of your estate plan.

Making Your Wishes Known

Even the most carefully written living will serves little purpose if no one knows it exists. It's essential to distribute copies to your healthcare proxy, primary physician, and any relevant specialists.

Some key places to store and share your living will include:

  • With your estate planning attorney

  • In your electronic health record (ask your provider)

  • In your home, in a clearly marked, accessible location

  • On a secure cloud platform with family access

Be sure to have open discussions with your loved ones. While these conversations can be difficult, they’re critical in making sure everyone understands your healthcare choices.

Considering Probate

Although a living will isn’t subject to probate like a traditional will, it can influence probate proceedings if disputes arise regarding medical expenses, wrongful death claims, or insurance benefits.

For example, if a family member claims your wishes weren’t followed, it could lead to legal action and complicate the estate's probate process. Clear, updated documentation reduces this risk.

At Sanders & Sanders, Attorneys at Law, we focus on probate and estate matters. A legally sound living will supports a smoother process for your family and avoids unnecessary delays or legal costs.

Integrating With Other Advance Directives

Your living will is part of a larger legal structure called an advance directive, which may include:

  • Healthcare power of attorney

  • Do Not Resuscitate (DNR) orders

  • HIPAA authorization forms

Some key benefits of a comprehensive advance directive include:

  • Reduced the chance of probate challenges related to healthcare expenses

  • Legal protection for your proxy and providers

  • Seamless communication among your medical and legal teams

  • Greater assurance that your preferences will be followed

Working with an attorney assures all these components are properly drafted and coordinated to minimize conflicts and confusion.

Tailoring to Specific Medical Conditions

If you have been diagnosed with a chronic or terminal illness, your living will should reflect the specifics of your condition. A general document might not account for the medical decisions you’ll likely face.

Discuss your prognosis and treatment options with your healthcare team. This will help you and your attorney draft a more specific, actionable plan.

Such detail reduces ambiguity, improving the chance that your care aligns with your intentions. It also reduces the likelihood of legal disputes or conflicts among family members, which could eventually impact the probate process.

Avoiding Common Mistakes in Living Wills

Many living wills fail to serve their intended purpose due to common errors. These include:

  • Using vague or contradictory language

  • Forgetting to sign and notarize

  • Omitting scenarios like irreversible coma or late-stage dementia

  • Not aligning it with other estate documents

By working with a skilled estate planning attorney, you can avoid these pitfalls and assure that your living will is comprehensive, enforceable, and legally sound.

Even well-meaning family members may unintentionally delay or ignore your wishes if the document is unclear or hard to locate—issues that can easily spill over into probate proceedings.

Keeping Your Estate Plan Aligned

Your living will is only one piece of a complete estate plan. Regular coordination between your will, trust, power of attorney, and healthcare directives assures consistency and reduces conflict.

Conflicting information among documents can result in probate delays or legal challenges. For example, if your trust specifies a healthcare-related instruction that differs from your living will, the court may need to intervene.

To avoid these inconsistencies, review your estate plan every few years with a qualified attorney. Sanders & Sanders, Attorneys at Law, offers comprehensive estate planning services tailored to clients in Prince George's County, Southern Maryland, and the D.C. Metro area.

One of the most important steps you can take to safeguard your future is making sure your living will accurately reflects your healthcare wishes. A properly written and maintained document gives your loved ones guidance during challenging times and helps prevent unnecessary probate complications. 

Contact an Estate Planning Lawyer Today

If you're ready to take the next step, Sanders & Sanders, Attorneys at Law, is there for you. We proudly serve clients in Prince George's County, Southern Maryland, and the D.C. Metro area, and we’re here to help you create a living will that brings peace of mind and clarity when it matters most. Contact us today to schedule a consultation.